Divorce coaching for the life you were born to live
With a divorce coach by your side, together we’ll find ways to help you survive this difficult time so that you can thrive in your new future. It isn’t my job to provide advice or wisdom, but to connect you to your own knowing that is buried beneath fear, expectations, resentment and a million other things. A divorce coach will help you look at your present to help you create the future you deserve. Your therapist looks at your past to help you manage your present. I highly recommend both for this leg of your journey.
Why a Divorce Coach?
The process of getting divorced is long and arduous anywhere, but it is particularly challenging in New Jersey. Though NJ doesn’t make the Top 5 Worst States in which to get divorced, talk to anyone here and they will disagree. Many divorces take years to be finalized in the Garden State. Keeping your sanity intact while being strong for your children seems near impossible when you are dealing with your own fear, anger, sadness, and uncertainty will be a key factor in getting to the next beautiful chapter of your life.
This isn’t what you signed up for! I know. But now that you’re here you have a lot of decisions to make, and make them quickly. With important decisions that could affect you and your children for years to come, now isn’t the time to refuse help or go it alone. As someone who did, I don’t recommend it to anyone. But with a trusted coach by your side, you can cling to your remaining sanity, figure out what is most important to you, and work towards that beautiful future.
Badass Coach
I’m not a lawyer, though I represented myself more than two dozen times in New Jersey Family Courts. I’m not a therapist, though that was my academic goal many years ago. I’m a single mom who has clawed her way to the other side of the legal system with scars and war stories to share. Through all of my life's challenges I have found healing in helping others work through their own traumas. As your divorce coach, I will help you identify and prioritize the issues that are most important to you. Together, we will help you advocate for yourself with your attorney and your ex.
I watched “The Sound of Music” every other day for many years, so the idea that “where the Lord closes a door, somewhere he opens a window” is etched on my soul. Thank you, Rev. Mother. Your marriage may be coming to an end, but this is just one chapter in the story of your life. This is your chance to write a new ending full of possibilities.
With the proper support, you can save money in legal fees, finalize your divorce more quickly, and find the courage and confidence to move forward. Let’s climb every mountain together. (IYKYK)
In-person and remote options
Initial meetings are held in a safe public space or online. Subsequent meetings can be held at a predetermined location, a family or friend’s home, or online. I am happy to hike with you, shop, or go bowling. My coaching approach is flexible and I know how valuable your time is, so let’s make the most of it.
How the Badassery Helps
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Prioritizing
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Planning
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Paperwork
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Peer Support
Stages of Divorce
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The Before
You’ve been wondering why life feels off, duller than you’d imagined. Is your marriage holding you back?
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The During
Your life has completely imploded, the beautiful future you dreamed of seems out of reach. Will it ever be over?
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The After
You are finally divorced! You can heave a sigh of relief. But other than throwing a celebratory party, what now?
Someone You Can Trust
Anne S.
“Laurice listens deeply, asks questions from a place of grounded curiosity, and facilitates personal and group development, making adjustments for the greatest good.”
Jill W.
“Laurice is centered with principles of authenticity, resilience and community care. I trust her wisdom and appreciate her insight and expertise in navigating challenging systems. She is a woman who makes other women feel safe and supported. She blends organizational and business skills with deep empathy so the time spent together is an exquisite circle of care.”
Ron, Youth Program Director
“Laurice's ability to relate to the delegates is unparalleled. Delegates seek her out as a staff member that they can easily and openly talk with. I have witnessed her many times involved in deep conversations for hours on end in order to console or to give guidance to a delegate facing challenges or difficulties of an extremely personal nature. Her empathy, understanding. and compassion are extraordinary.”
